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Patient Communication for Chiropractors Isn't Marketing. It's Foundational.

By Nerissa Brumley · June 3, 2026

Chiro Connect founder Nerissa Brumley in a Chiro Connect shirt beside the headline You're Calling It Marketing, Here's What I Called It

You’ve got a list. Hundreds of patients who walked in, got better, and you haven’t heard from since. You call the work of reaching them “marketing,” so it sits at the bottom of the to-do list under everything that feels more urgent. Then I sat down with Dr. Ed Osburn for the TCP Revival Series, and somewhere in that conversation I said out loud the thing I’ve believed for almost twenty years. The word you’re using for it is the problem.

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As featured on The Chiropractic Philanthropist with Dr. Ed Osburn, Episode 421.

What’s the difference between marketing and patient communication?

Marketing is how you find new patients. Patient communication is how you keep the ones you already have. The day you start calling the second one marketing, it slides to the bottom of the list under everything more urgent, and it quietly stops happening.

It's foundational. It's not even marketing.

When Dr. Ed asked me how valuable an email list really is, I didn’t hedge. “It’s foundational. It’s absolutely foundational. It’s not even marketing.” I only call it marketing because that’s the word everyone else uses. It’s the number one communication tool you have, above texting, above social, all of it. I’ve spent almost twenty years and more than 1,000 chiropractic practices watching this play out, and the word is always the problem. I already made the full case for whether email is worth it for a practice, so I won’t rehash it here. The point is simpler than ROI. The word you use decides whether it happens.

Try this: Read the last thing your practice sent that wasn’t an appointment reminder. If it sounds like an ad, that’s marketing. If it sounds like you checking in, that’s communication. Patients can feel the difference, and they only keep opening the second kind.

Why do chiropractic patients stop coming in?

Almost none of them quit on purpose. They drift. Usually right after they start feeling better, they miss one visit, the gap grows, and three months later coming back feels strange.

They're not mad. They're just waiting to hear from you.

Here’s the math that should sting. A doc spends thousands a year on ads and thirty bucks to build the email list, then goes a decade without sending it a single thing. They’re not mad at you. They’re just waiting to hear from you. This is the retention problem every practice has, and it’s quieter than a cancellation. The ones who already slipped past the 60 to 90 day mark aren’t gone either. They’re waiting on you to go first, which is the whole point of a reactivation campaign.

Try this: Pick one patient you haven’t seen in two months. You assumed they moved on. They didn’t. They just stopped hearing from you. Now multiply that by your whole list.

Can you automate patient communication in a chiropractic practice?

You can automate the sending. You can’t automate the trust. The system runs in the background, but what lands in the inbox still has to sound like the person they see in the office.

You can't automate trust.

I love AI. I’m obsessed with it. But we’re a hands-on profession, and you can’t automate trust. That’s not happening. What we actually do is simpler than it sounds. We’re human beings babysitting software. That’s why a weekly newsletter that sounds like you works and a generic blast doesn’t. In a profession built on real relationships, the relationship is the part that stays human.

Try this: Read the last email your practice sent out loud. If it sounds like a template or a hospital memo, your patients hear it too. The ones who trust you hear it fastest.

What This Means for You

  • Your patient list isn't dead. It's waiting.
  • Marketing finds new patients. Communication keeps the ones you have.
  • Most patients don't need convincing. They need reminding.
  • Stay in front of them before the schedule gets light, not after.
What this means for you: your patient list isn't dead, it's waiting; marketing finds new patients while communication keeps the ones you have; most patients don't need convincing, they need reminding; and staying in front of them beats waiting until the schedule gets light.

Pro Tip: The patient most likely to drift is the one who just started feeling better. That’s the week to land in their inbox, not the month after they’ve already gone quiet. And it stacks. The doc who stays in front of his patients is the same one the AI ends up recommending when somebody asks for a chiropractor in town, because the AI mostly repeats what your patients already say about you.

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Inside CC with Nerissa: Greg Built Something That Thinks Like Me. The Cats Supervised.

Greg at his desk with three cats perched on a tower behind him, supervising his work.
Greg working under very serious supervision. Three cats. Zero missed meetings.
Throwback selfie of Nerissa and Greg the night they launched Chiro Connect.
Throwback to the night we launched Chiro Connect. No clients yet. No proof. We celebrated anyway.

Greg is the vibe coding genius behind the technology at Chiro Connect. He’s been the one beside me working 12 to 18 hour days, seven days a week, building the next level of this company with three cats stacked on a tower behind him like they hired him instead of the other way around. Which, at this point, maybe they did.

For the last few months we haven’t been playing with AI. We’ve been building the infrastructure behind what Chiro Connect is becoming. Cleaner systems. Faster execution. More consistency. More room for the humans on our team to manage the parts humans should still manage.

A few nights ago Greg showed me one of our custom Chiro Connect agents. I watched it run. Then I looked at him and said, “Holy shit.” Not because it was fast. Because he made it think the way I think. He took something that eats about 8 hours of my week and made it happen in 10 minutes. But the speed wasn’t the part that got me. It didn’t feel generic. It felt like he’d taken years of everything I’ve said, taught, corrected, rewritten, hated, fixed, and obsessed over, and turned it into a working brain for this company.

Not my voice. My judgment. That’s the part everybody’s missing in the AI conversation. The goal isn’t to hand the work to AI and walk away. The goal is to use it to kill the repetition and keep humans exactly where the judgment lives.

So while Greg’s been building the AI side, we’ve been growing the human team. Humans still manage it. Humans still QA it. Humans still schedule it. Humans still look at a draft and say, “No, a patient wouldn’t care about that.” Or, “Yes, that’s the one.” Or, “Nerissa’s going to hate this sentence.” They’re usually right.

That’s the blend. A real service, powered by better technology, run by real people. Not software. Not another dashboard. Not one more thing for you to log into, learn, manage, and quietly ignore.

Greg understands the technology in a way I never will. I understand chiropractic communication in a way you only get from being inside this profession for almost two decades. He’s building the brain. I’m making sure it still thinks like us. The human team is growing to manage the AI team. The cats are supervising. And somewhere in the middle of all of it, this thing is starting to feel very, very real.

What does a Chiro Connect newsletter actually include?

Every newsletter ends with a Week of Wellness. It’s a simple daily calendar that gives patients something to check and use all week, and a reason to open the next one. Here’s the one that went out with this issue.

June 2026 Week of Wellness calendar Your daily walk is real movement Drink a glass of water before coffee Joints get lubricated by gentle movement Take the long way through the house Rest well today. Move gently tomorrow Range of motion: how far a joint moves Standing up counts. Keep doing that

Frequently Asked Questions

What’s the difference between marketing and patient communication for a chiropractor?

Marketing is how you bring in new patients. Patient communication is how you keep the ones you already have and bring back the ones who drifted. Both matter, but calling the second one marketing makes it feel optional, and that’s why it usually doesn’t happen.

Why do chiropractic patients stop coming in?

Most don’t quit on purpose, they drift. They start feeling better, miss a visit, and the gap grows until coming back feels awkward. They’re rarely mad or gone for good. They just stopped hearing from the practice.

Does Chiro Connect use AI or real people?

Both, on purpose. We use technology to kill the repetition and real people to handle the judgment, the voice, and the relationship. A real person reviews every account and every send. You can’t automate trust, so we don’t try to.

What’s the best way to bring inactive chiropractic patients back?

Reach out before the gap hardens. The 60 to 90 day window after a patient goes quiet is the sweet spot for reactivation. Most of them aren’t gone, they’ve just drifted, and a familiar message from a practice they already trust is usually enough to bring them back.

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